© 2020 by Mim Kempson

1.

Story-focused

We make meaning in life through stories. We thread together events into storylines, drawing out themes and creating conclusions, sometimes unhelpful ones:

 

"I've failed so many times, I must be a failure"

"I've been single for so long, there must be something wrong with me"

"I've received so many job rejections, I mustn't be good at anything"

Stories are shaped by life experience, but we also inherit them from our parents, the media, communities, workplaces, social movements, prevailing politics and so on. 

Only through acknowledging the existence of these dominant stories and the effects they have on us can we begin to diminish they power they have over our lives and then, together, bring our preferred story to life.

Read more about the goals of narrative therapy here.

2.

Diversity-friendly

As a narrative practitioner, I steer away from positive psychology and ideas like the law of attraction. Sometimes these approaches lead to self-blame - centring the problem in our thinking or behaviour. Instead, I work with the narrative therapy ethos:

"The person is not the problem; the problem is the problem"

Problems are socially constructed - what one person perceives as a problem may be considered a "strength" for another. This is a key belief that leads to diversity-friendly practices.

Being a diversity-friendly life coach means that I welcome people with diverse sexualities, gender identities, mental health experiences, appearances, socio-economic statuses, employment choices, relationship models, ethnicities, belief systems, family structures and sexual practices.

Read more about diversity-informed coaching here.

3.

Multi-disciplinary

Although I'm a qualified narrative therapist, I'm not a purist in my practice. I believe that reflecting on our lives from varied perspectives can lead us to find better solutions.

Having worked in communications and media, I understand the intricate effects that advertising and social media have on our lives, behaviour and relationships.  As a previous journalist I also have extensive experience in strategic interviewing. ​

I sometimes draw upon my own lived experience and stories to inform my work - such as being part of the LGBTQI+ community; competing in body building with a mild deformity; living through chronic illness; and facing many mental health obstacles. You can read more about my story and my training here.

Read more about my story here.